Kestrel the Druid

Balance. We all strive for it. But most can’t seem to find it. I have always known that I am strong in both fire and water elements. But I am weak in the air and earth elements. What we are most drawn to is where we are imbalanced. For example, I am drawn to the mountains, which represent both air and earth. I feel at home in large bodies of water, but do not feel like spending my vacations in the ocean. I have no wish to visit volcanoes. My dream vacation is in the mountains and in wooded areas. I love flying. These traits would point to a desire to get stronger with my weaker traits.

Why is this important? Being very strong with the fire element, I have an explosive temper. While anger can be a powerful motivator, it can also be very destructive. My water element strengths simply suppress the anger and don’t allow it to do what it needs to do. This has led to years of pent-up frustrations leading to rage. By balancing this fire and water with something like air and earth, I can better control my anger. This balance allows me to use my anger for better purposes. And not be so destructive. Someone who is strong in the air element may be more flexible. They might just do whatever the wind decides (think of a dandelion seed). But they will not have a direction for their future and look back on their life with regrets. They miss out on opportunities.

How can you discover which elements you have strength in and which ones are weak? Look at your desires and look at your strengths. I’ve always been a great fire builder and I’ve never lost control of one. But building paper airplanes. Couldn’t get one to fly if my life depended on it. But I love being on top of a mountain and in an airplane.

Here are some ideas of various things linked to the various elements.;

Volcanoes – Fire

Bodies of water – water

Mud – combination of earth and water

Mountains – Combination of earth and air

Forests – earth

Flying – air

This may seem like common sense. However, it gives you an idea of what to look for. It also guides you on how to think about your various strengths and desires. Also, look within yourself. Listen to your inner guides and wisdom. Intuitively, we all know what we need. We just need to acknowledge it and act on it.